"The bitterest tears shed over a grave are of words left unsaid and deeds left undone." ~Harriet Beecher Stowe My adult children every once in a while relay stories of their childhood that make me think "Was I even there?" I'm pretty sure they made some of it up. They ask me things about their childhood and I just shrug and say "Sorry, if it's not in the photo album I don't remember ." Of course as I see them raise their young families and do all these amazing things, I think: "If only I would have..." "I wish I could have..." "I meant to..." But then I shake it off and remember how our parents used to let us roam the neighborhood all day, knowing we'd be home when it got dark, or we got hungry, and we all survived. They also let us play on the metal 'spider web' on the playground (no net), ride our bikes (no helmets), or lay up in the back window of the car on road trips (no seatbelts). As a gr...
Google image "Remember that the most valuable antiques are dear old friends." ~H. Jackson Brown Jr., author of Life's Little Instruction Book π It all starts with who can stay up the latest at a sleepover in elementary. Then in middle school it's who will stand up with you against the school bully. In high school you only need to find one other person to be your bestie to go for chocolate covered cream-filled long john donuts or help you with Chemistry, or your hair/makeup/outfit/everything. Friends. As you age, you call them when your kids are sick, or behaving weird, or you need their recipe. You share the sale you found and the movie you love. You can't wait to tell them so they can celebrate with you, or you need their advice because you're going to lose your mind. You gut-laugh with them, and at times gut-cry with them. π There are such great examples of friends in the bible. Love, lo...